Parenting Fail What started as a day all about love, rapidly descended into an epic parenting fail. I'm still hurt and upset about the incident, but more so about what it says about my skills as a mom. How do you bounce back from a parenting fail? No, really. I'm asking. And not for a friend. It wasn't even a huge event, but it was the thing that finally broke me. I … [Read more...]
An Older Preemie: Lindsey’s Story
Older Preemie As a mother, it's normal to wonder what your kids will be like as they grow-up and think about their future. When they are born extremely premature, it adds another layer of worry. I constantly look for stories about an older preemie to give myself reassurance that everything will be OK for them. Obviously, no child's future is guaranteed, premature or not. … [Read more...]
500 Grams: A Small Amount Makes a Huge Difference
500 Grams 500 grams is approximately 1.1 lbs. It seems like a very tiny amount, but it is such an enormous milestone when it comes to premature birth. Before having my twins, I had always measured in pounds and inches. It wasn't until I started having complications that I realized how important every single gram was. I will never forget when a doctor told me that my … [Read more...]
Snow Day! Snow Day! Snow Day!
Snow Day As a kid, I totally remember waking up, and my parents telling me I could go back to sleep because we had a snow day. There was no way I'd go back to sleep because I'd be too excited. A snow day! No school! All day to play in the snow! Well, this morning, I got to bring the excitement to my three kiddos. Only Mr. B really got it. The twins thought we were playing … [Read more...]
PTSD: A Very Real Complication of Premature Birth
PTSD The term PTSD, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, is a condition people associate with experiences in the military or surviving a catastrophic life-experience, like a natural disaster or an accident. It is not always associated with pregnancy, birth, and prematurity, but it is a very real condition for women who experience those life-changing events. Worrying every day of … [Read more...]
