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Micro Preemie Milestones: Hailey’s Story

October 2, 2017 By Shann 8 Comments

Micro Preemie Milestones

When our smallest and sickest babies are born, every small step forward and every ounce gained is a reason to celebrate. They may not be “typical” milestones, but that doesn’t make micro preemie milestones any less important. For each tiny battle is an amazing accomplishment for someone who has the odds stacked against them.

Whether it was an ounce gained or a bottle finished, I can remember the exact details of the twins’ micro preemie milestones when they were in the NICU.

From the first time they opened their eyes, the first time they tried breast milk on a Q-tip, the first time I was able to hold them, to the first time they were in baby clothes. You wouldn’t think baby clothes would be such a big deal, but when you’re used to preemie diapers that had to be folded (because even they were too big!) and wires everywhere, those clothes were a victory.

From when they moved from the ventilator to CPAP, to when they were able to take a bottle instead of all tube feeds, and finally (yes!) when they were in an open air crib. No more sticking hands through tiny holes just to touch my babies. It almost felt weird to be able to see them so clearly.

The biggest milestone for me in the NICU was when they moved them to another room. They were finally out of the really “intensive” area, and into the area with the “feeders and growers.” Of course, they still had some tubes, and Little P even had one more surgery, but I felt like I could finally breathe a little bit. My babies would actually be coming home with me.

micro preemie milestones may be different from full-term milestones, but they are just as important.

Today’s sweet girl went through many similar micro preemie milestones. Her mother, Jamie, shares their story today, and also shares what she felt was the biggest milestone yet. I’m so happy to introduce you to Hailey.

Micro Preemie Milestones. Every small step or ounce should be celebrated.

Hailey Jade

Micro Preemie Milestones, Hailey Jade's story

1. Tell us about your baby.

Hailey Jade was born at 24 weeks and 3 days. She weighed 1 pound 10 ounces.

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2. How long was your NICU stay? What was the hardest part?

Our stay was 206 days.

Micro preemie milestones

The hardest part is the not knowing and the feeling of helplessness. Hailey has extreme chronic lung disease, so she is now home on oxygen.

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We just got home from the nicu yesterday! It’s our biggest milestone yet.

Micro Preemie Milestones

3. Do you know what caused your premature birth?

The Doctors have no idea why I went into labor. I did have an incompetent cervix that I had gotten a cerclage for. Not 2 weeks later I went into labor. They just couldn’t stop it, even with bed rest.

I have 2 older boys. They are 5 and 10 years old, and they were both full term.

Micro preemie milestones

 

4.How are you and your baby doing now?

Thank goodness we did not need to do any surgery. Hailey just had a lot of lung issues.

There will be follow-ups with the pulmonologist because she is home on oxygen. So far, Hailey is doing great with milestones, and is a healthy 14 pounds.

She is 7 months old actual, 3 months old adjusted.

Micro preemie milestones

5. What advice would you give to a new preemie family?

I would advise any NICU mom to start a journal. Write everything down. It was a life saver.

And know that it is OK to break down.

Even though our journey was 206 days, I know deep in my heart she was where she needed to be. She was there for as long as she was for a reason.

These little miracle babies are strong and tough. There are lots of foundations ready and willing to help NICU families.

Micro preemie milestones

Thank you so much to Jamie and her family for sharing sweet Hailey. Please leave any supportive comments or questions below.

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Filed Under: Blog, Micro Preemie Mondays Tagged With: 24 weeker, actual age, adjusted age, cerclage, chronic lung disease, cld, Doctors, hospital, labor, micro preemie, micro preemie monday, NICU, oxygen, premature birth, pulmonologist

Comments

  1. Trisha White says

    October 2, 2017 at 7:38 am

    These are miracle babies for sure!! Glad to know everything is good with Hailey!! She’s such a cutie! ♥

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  2. Carissa Link says

    October 2, 2017 at 7:58 am

    My heart strings! Hailey is precious 🙂 My husband was a preemie, and I have a friend who had twin preemies. I can’t imagine the emotions you went through in 206 days! Bless you and your adorable little family 🙂

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  3. Beth Kondrick says

    October 2, 2017 at 9:43 am

    I remember when my friend’s daughter hit those milestones and when they moved out of the NICU and saw the light at the end of the tunnel. I’m glad to see Hailey is home now!

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  4. Annette Dattilo says

    October 2, 2017 at 11:14 am

    Hailey Jade is beautiful. I know what it is like to celebrate tiny milestones with my firstborn. It isn’t an easy road, but those little victories keep you going. Thank you for sharing.

    Reply
  5. Courtney Byers says

    October 2, 2017 at 7:52 pm

    She is beautiful! Thank you for sharing her story.

    Reply
  6. Kristen Raney says

    October 2, 2017 at 7:53 pm

    Congratulations on coming home! So excited for you and your family! Your daughter is beautiful and an amazing little fighter.

    Reply
  7. Kelsey H says

    October 4, 2017 at 3:10 pm

    Congratulations! What progress she has made! xo

    Reply
  8. Uwanda says

    April 14, 2019 at 11:56 am

    Beautiful and so inspiring. I am a new micro preemie mom and this gives me hope.

    Reply

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