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Restaurant Do’s and Don’ts

May 5, 2016 By Shann 21 Comments

Restaurant visit

When taking children to a restaurant, there are many things you should and should not do. While I am definitely not an expert, I have picked up a thing or two dining out with my three boys. I’m sharing my wisdom and experience, but I still can’t guarantee success. Kids are very tricky. Just when you think you’ve figured them out, they go and surprise you. Not always in a good way. So, if you decide to take your children to a restaurant, you’ve been warned.

restaurant do's and don'ts

The Do’s

Yesterday was the twins’ fourth birthday, and we decided to take them to a restaurant for dinner. Here are my tips for things that should help your experience, or at least keep you from getting kicked out of the restaurant.

1.If you’re going to eat later than normal, try to get your kids to take a nap.

A well-rested child is usually a better behaved child. Usually.

2.In addition to a nap, also feed them a small snack.

While this might seem counter-intuitive since you’re going out to eat, you have to remember children are not patient. Unless you’re the only people in the restaurant or it’s a fast food place, you will have to order, and then wait for your food. If they’ve had a little something, they might be able to wait those 10 minutes (which may feel like 10 hours,)  for the food to come out.

3.Bring some sort of entertainment.

Most family friendly restaurants have some sort of coloring/crayon apparatus, but just in case they don’t, you want to be prepared for something to occupy those little fingers and minds. Otherwise, you may have piles of salt and pepper poured on your plate, fork fights, and whines of boredom. I’m just guessing.

4.Make sure you choose a family friendly place.

And by family friendly, I mean loud. It will drown out the screaming, crying, and whining if any of the above steps haven’t worked to produce a calm, peaceful child. Again, just guessing. Not from experience at all.

The Don’ts

1.Do not mention dessert until after you’ve eaten.

Instead of an incentive to eat their dinner, it’s just an excuse to whine through the entire meal for cake, cookies, or that milkshake you’re not letting them have right now.

2.Do not let them have the balloon until after dinner.

This one actually wasn’t us! The table next to us let all 4 of the children in their party grab a balloon on their way to the booth, which they proceeded to hit each other with, hit us with, and make my children green with envy, until their frustrated parents grabbed them all away. You can imagine what happened next. Not pretty.

3.Do not order a meal for each of your children.

Unless they are really good eaters all the time, or if you like having leftovers. Between my three boys, they didn’t even eat one whole mini-pizza, so they will be eating it tonight for dinner. And tomorrow for lunch.

4.Do not order something that is hard to eat.

This is for your parents. You need something you can quickly shovel in your mouth between breaking up the fights, stopping the water from spilling, and wrestling that huge knife away from your child. Who thought leaving knives on the table was a good idea?

Plus, you might have a child who refuses to get off your lap, requiring you to eat with one hand.

 

So, there are my tips for eating in a restaurant with your children. As you might have guessed, we have not always had the best luck. If I were being really truthful, my biggest piece of advice would be to get a babysitter…or just eat at home. At least until they are 10.

 
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Comments

  1. Krysten @ Why Girls Are Weird says

    May 5, 2016 at 7:11 am

    Also. Parents please don’t let your children run around the restaurant. It’s not a playground and they could get hurt! I’ve seen it happen and it’s not good.

    Reply
    • Shann Eva says

      May 6, 2016 at 8:55 am

      Agreed 🙂

      Reply
  2. Rachel G says

    May 5, 2016 at 7:31 am

    Sharing meals is definitely a good idea–restaurant portion sizes are often really big for kids appetites! We went to a restaurant with 2 5 year olds and one 2 year old this week. Our strategy is to scatter the kids and seat them next to bigger people and not next to each other. 🙂

    Reply
    • Shann Eva says

      May 6, 2016 at 8:55 am

      Great idea!

      Reply
  3. Alanna @ Alanna & Company says

    May 5, 2016 at 8:35 am

    Great tips! My boyfriend works in a restaurant as a side-job and it’s shocking the crazy things that children do/what parents allow them to do. He’s had to sometimes parent the children because they are running around the restaurant away from their parents. Good job on being a great mom!

    Reply
    • Shann Eva says

      May 6, 2016 at 8:54 am

      Awe. Thank you Alanna.

      Reply
  4. Chrissy Z. says

    May 5, 2016 at 10:33 am

    Great advice! Save the treat for afterward and not ordering a meal for every child, they won’t eat it anyway.

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    • Shann Eva says

      May 6, 2016 at 8:54 am

      Exactly. Thanks Chrissy.

      Reply
  5. Marsha says

    May 5, 2016 at 11:37 am

    Great tips! Do the best you can. I always took Clorox wipes for high chair and table because he was all over that stuff and I wanted it clean before his hands and food was touching it.

    Reply
    • Shann Eva says

      May 6, 2016 at 8:54 am

      Totally. When they were little I either did that, or brought high chair covers…or both 🙂

      Reply
  6. Kristin C says

    May 5, 2016 at 12:03 pm

    Yes! I definitely agree about the well-rested kid. The little girl I nanny is SOOOO much better when she’s had a good nap!

    Reply
  7. Jessica Hughes says

    May 5, 2016 at 12:41 pm

    Great tips! It’s certainly a learning curve going out to eat with little ones!

    Reply
    • Shann Eva says

      May 6, 2016 at 8:53 am

      Yes!

      Reply
  8. Lindsay Katherine says

    May 5, 2016 at 1:10 pm

    Shann, this is so great. I think it’s great if you can teach your kids how to be in a restaurant from an early age; we’ve always brought Ginny to restaurants, and I hope as she grows up and can actually understand rules that we can easily teach her these do’s and dont’s : )

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    • Shann Eva says

      May 6, 2016 at 8:53 am

      Thanks Lindsay!

      Reply
  9. Lauren B. says

    May 5, 2016 at 3:36 pm

    Great tips here! we always bring some sort of tech toy and order the kids food first, so if they engage in conversation with us, sit nicely and eat most of their dinner they get to play with the i pad or phone while my husband and I eat. It makes everyone happy! ha! 😉

    Reply
    • Shann Eva says

      May 6, 2016 at 8:53 am

      Perfect idea.

      Reply
  10. Pack Your Baguios says

    May 5, 2016 at 4:20 pm

    Very good tips! We always ate early so we didn’t have to wait for a table. Trying to keep a toddler happy for 45 minutes while you’re waiting is just torture!

    Reply
    • Shann Eva says

      May 6, 2016 at 8:52 am

      Yes! We also try to go early.

      Reply
  11. Rebecca | Happily the Hicks says

    May 6, 2016 at 9:06 pm

    Good tips! I don’t know how my parents did it with six kids, but I know it wasn’t easy.

    Reply
  12. Mistle says

    May 9, 2016 at 1:25 pm

    All great tips!! I used to be a server and I can remember the looks on some parents faces when their children acted out. Not a good situation at all.

    Reply

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