Advocate When you have a complicated pregnancy and/or a premature birth, you often need to advocate for yourself and your baby. While doctors may know a lot, they don't always know what is the best decision for you or your baby. It is your body, your baby, and your mother's instincts that often have to guide you. Of course, doctors, nurses, and other specialists will guide … [Read more...]
On the Day You came Home
The Day The day was August 3rd, 2012. It was a Friday, but that's all I remember about the day. I don't remember if it was hot or cold. Rainy or sunny. I don't remember what I ate, or even if I ate. I don't remember what I was wearing, and I probably didn't brush my hair or teeth. I just remember getting that phone call. You were ready to come home. It wasn't completely … [Read more...]
August Goals with a July Update
August Goals Only one more month of Summer vacation! Maybe even less, for some of you. So, I figured I'd better get to my August goals, and fast. With all of the activities, trips, and preparations for back-to-school, it's going to be a busy one. Before I get to my August goals, let's take a look back at July and see what happened. July Goals 1.Make … [Read more...]
Blame is not the answer, Scarlett’s Story
Blame When you experience a premature birth, it's so hard not to blame yourself, as the mother. Mothers are supposed to be able to protect their children from anything, even before they are born. Sometimes, though, you just can't. It is not in your power, and it is a really hard situation to be in. I always second guessed everything I did during my pregnancy, and wondered … [Read more...]
School Days Ahead
School Days Summer school has ended for Mr. B, and with that ending, it brings us to the beginning of actual school days. I registered Mr. B last night, and I got the twins' preschool letter too. I'm going to have a first grader! And (potty training pending) 2 preschoolers! Yikes! How did this happen? Not only has this summer went by at lightening speed, but it seems … [Read more...]
