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On the edge of viability, Malik’s Story

May 2, 2016 By Shann 7 Comments

Viability

During my pregnancy, I was always told that even though I was having complications, there was really nothing that could be done until I reached viability, which was 24 weeks. When I reached viability, that was a huge milestone for me.  I knew the doctors would try to save my babies if they were in trouble, and even though the odds of survival were low, they still would have a fighting chance.

While 24 weeks is the point of viability in most hospitals, some are able to save even younger babies, as advances in medicine are made.

Today, I’m sharing Cassie’s story. She didn’t reach that point of viability, yet she still has her miracle baby. Please read about Malik, and their journey through prematurity.

Malik

1.Tell us about your baby.

Malik was born at 23 weeks 6 days by emergency c-section weighing 1 pound 6 Oz 11 inches on 11-27-15 at 10:37 pm at the Santa Rosa children’s hospital in San Antonio.

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2. How long was your NICU stay? What was the hardest part?

Malik spent 105 days in the NICU and came home exactly 1 week before his due date on March 11 2016. He did come home on 1/8th of a litter of oxygen. The hardest part for me was the uncertainty of things, and not being able to just hold my baby. Also, when he was about a week old, he did have a set back. He would move so much that it would stress his little body, so they had to paralyze and sedate him. Seeing him so still and lifeless was extremely hard for me.

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3. Do you know what caused your premature birth?

My water broke a 22 weeks 6 days, and I was able to stay pregnant for another week. I then developed Chorioamnionitis (a bacterial infection) due to me not having any amniotic fluid.

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4. How is your baby doing now?

Malik is doing extremely well. He is now 5 months old and weighs 8 pounds 6 oz. He is off oxygen and all medications. His complications included CLD (chronic lung disease,) PDA (Patent ductus arteriosus) which has now resolved, stage 1 ROP (Retinopathy of Prematurity) which is getting better, and Nephrocalcinosis (increased Calcium levels in the Kidneys) which is also getting better.

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5. What advice do you have for new preemie parents?

My advice to preemie mom’s would be get all the support you can and it does help to talk about it make a friend. I met this wonderful person in the NICU who was our neighbor and it made me feel better to talk to someone who understood what I was going through and to know that I wasn’t alone. Just keep your head up and stay strong you can do it! One day your NICU stay will be just a memory.

age of viability

Thank you so much to Cassie for sharing her beautiful boy with us. He is truly a miracle and a fighter. Cassie also has some great advice about finding someone to talk to. If you or someone you know is going through a premature birth, I’m always here to listen and answer questions.

Please leave any comments and support for Cassie and Malik below.

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Filed Under: Blog Tagged With: 23 weeker, 24 weeks, amniotic fluid, bacterial infection, calcium, Chorioamnionitis, chronic lung disease, cld, emergency c-section, kidneys, nephrocalcinosis, NICU, Patent Ductus Arteriosus, PDA, Pprom, Premature rupture of membranes, retinopathy of prematurity, ROP, viability, water breaking, water broke

Comments

  1. Chrissa - Physical Kitchness says

    May 2, 2016 at 9:35 am

    Malik is absolutely a doll!! Thoughts and prayers to you Cassie!

    Reply
  2. Summer @ Coffee With Summer says

    May 2, 2016 at 10:55 am

    Wow! What a story. You both are so strong, Cassie. Thank you for sharing.

    Reply
  3. Joanna says

    May 2, 2016 at 6:33 pm

    Oh my goodness! That sweet boy. What a fighter:)

    Reply
  4. Bev F. says

    May 3, 2016 at 5:14 am

    Wow, that is quite a journey into this world! What a fighter. Thanks for sharing Malik’s story.

    Reply
  5. Alyssa Kolsky Hertzig says

    May 3, 2016 at 7:54 pm

    23 weeks! Wow. That is truly a miracle. What a little sweetie. 🙂

    Reply
  6. Jennifer Corter says

    May 5, 2016 at 7:46 am

    Oh my gosh, that had to be HORRIBLY scary. I am so glad that little Malik is still here with us! He is a little cutie patootie!

    Reply
  7. Stella Chiu says

    May 9, 2016 at 9:04 am

    Hi, Shann

    The uncertain things must drive the parents of Preemie crazy. I believe this must be the hardest thing. The rate of the survival of the preemie is directly proportion to the love and touch of their parents.

    High five to all the parents of Preemie!

    Stella Chiu

    Reply

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